Questions about what’s normal when it comes to sex are super common — I’d say, like, 90% of the time, when someone asks me a sex-related question, they’re really asking, “Am I...
Science Says These Are the Best Songs To Have Sex To
16/07/2021
One of the upsides of sleeping with men who flip their records in the middle of sex (one of the only upsides) is that I know plenty of good songs to have sex to. They’ve...
Light BDSM & Bondage Play Beginner’s Guide
14/07/2021
What comes to mind when you think of BDSM? Whips, chains, dog collars, and name-calling? Those can certainly apply, though there is far more to the scene than those...
Lubes To Use If You Need A Little Assistance In The Bedroom
14/07/2021
Ain't no shame in dabbling on a little lubricant before or during sex, so here are some options that people lube — I mean love... But to be honest, there are a lot of reasons...
7 Ways for Men to Last a Lot Longer in Bed
09/07/2021
Irrespective of whether you’re new to the game and looking to improve your skills, or consider yourself a sex aficionado, it’s more than likely that at some point you will or you...
How to Have a Healthy Threesome
09/07/2021
If you're one of the 89 percent of people who *want* to have a threesome, but don't know where to start, this guide can help. Ménage à trois, threeway, triad, groupsex,...
The A-Spot What it is, how to find it, and why you should be stimulating it.
07/07/2021
Yes. You know the saying, “that hits the spot”? There’s a good chance the sex gods were thinking about one spot in particular when they created that phrase: the A-spot. Yes,...
Tips to Reach Orgasm for the LGBTIQ+ Community
05/07/2021
A few months ago, I wrote about the supposedly elusive female orgasm. While it is true that most people know very little about the female orgasm, even less is known about...
31 Days of Pleasure Challenge
01/07/2021
Welcome to the most pleasurable 31 days of your life. If you are up for the challenge, we have curated an incredible series of spectacularly sexual tasks for you to try over the co...
Oral Sex is Sex: Over 20 Oral Sex Tips to Make It the Ultimate Main Event
26/06/2021
Oral sex is sex. It’s not an alternative. It’s not “sex-lite.” It need not be relegated to foreplay. For many of us, oral sex is the main event and ultimate indulgence. If you’re...
6 Different Oral Sex Positions Every Vulva-Owner Should Experience, According to a Sexologist
25/06/2021
For some vulva-owners, oral sex functions mostly as an A+ sexual appetizer. For others, it’s the dessert you treat yourself to because you didn’t really enjoy the dinner enough to...
Normalise Using Lube: Why Your GYN Wants You to Talk About Lube Every Chance You Get!
23/06/2021
I have to be honest – I’m not sure how or why using lube became taboo or difficult to talk about. But it is something that comes up time and time again with my patients, and...
What Percentage of the Population is LGBTIQ?
19/06/2021
If you were asked to estimate the percentage of people who are LGBTIQ, what would you say? Over the last few decades, I’ve included this question on surveys and have found that...
Mindful Masturbation: What is it – and how do I do it?
18/06/2021
I hear you!! Those three words in one sentence can be perplexing. So, let’s break it down. Mindful Masturbation is the practice of being present...
How We’re Celebrating Pride 2021 with Our Community
17/06/2021
Pride (n.): A feeling of deep pleasure or satisfaction derived from one’s own achievements, the achievements of those with whom one is closely associated, or from qualitie...
