Even the steamiest couples hit the “same-old” wall. A fresh angle can spark brand-new sensations, amp up emotional closeness and...let’s be honest...make for a cracking story at Sunday brunch. Just remember: every vulva is different, every body has its own limits, and generous lube turns good friction into great fun.
The positions
1. Classic Scissor
Line up in a loose “X”, press vulva to vulva and rock or circle hips. Adjust the angle by shifting an ankle higher on your partner’s thigh.
Why it rocks: Direct clit pressure from two directions hits twice the nerve endings. Slide a mini vibe between bodies for bonus buzz.
Lube it: One pump of ASTROGLIDE Liquid keeps skin happy when the grind gets sweaty.
2. Face-Off
Receiver lies back, giver kneels between thighs—perfect for fingers, tongue or a slim dildo. Knees can bend wide or hug the giver’s hips for deeper angles.
Pro tip: Plant your feet flat on the mattress and lift hips slightly—hello, G-spot.
Lube it: Start with Liquid; if a toy comes out, swap to ASTROGLIDE X Silicone Gel for marathon glide.
3. Queen’s Throne
One partner reclines against pillows; the other kneels for oral. Free hands can tease nipples, stroke thighs or slide a finger inside.
Why it rocks: Upright receiver gets a front-row seat to the show—eye contact amps intimacy and feedback.
Lube it: ASTROGLIDE Gel stays put so your tongue isn’t chasing runaway slick.
4. Power Grind
Receiver straddles a flexed thigh or hip while both sit. Rocking, not bouncing, is the name of the game.
Variation: Pop a pillow under the giver’s thigh for extra height and clit pressure.
Lube it: Liquid wipes off skin and denim in one warm-soapy rinse.
5. Spoon & Slide
Classic spoon cuddle plus roaming fingers, bullet vibe or slim strap-on from behind.
Why it rocks: Perfect for sleepy Sunday mornings—or when period cramps rule out face-down moves.
Lube it: Gel if tongues are involved; ASTROGLIDE X if you’re thrusting.
6. Strap-On Doggy
Receiver on hands and knees with hips propped on a cushion; giver behind with harness.
Pro tip: Angle the dildo downwards slightly—vaginas aren’t straight tunnels. A hand on the receiver’s low back keeps rhythm synced.
Lube it: X Silicone Gel cushions thrusts and won’t dry mid-stroke.
7. Shower Straddle
Partner A lifts Partner B against the tiles, leg hooked round hip. Keep the water warm to stop muscles tensing.
Safety first: A non-slip mat prevents comedy stacks.
Lube it: X Silicone Gel laughs at running water, so the slick sticks around.
8. Pillow-Princess Twist
Receiver on back, booty perched on a cushion; giver kneels for oral while fingers curl toward the G-spot.
Variation: Slide a glass wand alongside fingers for firm pressure without bulky girth.
Lube it: Gel stays exactly where you dab it—no drip, all sip.
9. Reverse Cowgirl (Strap-On)
Rider faces away, hands on headboard or thighs; gravity and core muscles handle the grind.
Why it rocks: Angles dildo toward front wall of vagina for tingly G-spot taps.
Lube it: X holds up to energetic bounce sessions.
10. Standing Embrace
Partners stand face-to-face; shorter partner hooks one leg around the other’s hip, backs against a wall for support.
Pro tip: Keep knees soft to absorb motion—think mini squats, not pogo stick.
Lube it: ASTROGLIDE X keeps its mojo if you wander into the shower halfway.
11. Lap-Sitting (Yab-Yum remix)
One sits on a sturdy chair; partner straddles. Rock hips slowly while matching breaths.
Why it rocks: Deep pelvic-floor engagement can trigger blended clitoral + vaginal orgasms. Wheelchair-friendly, too.
Lube it: Liquid is skin-happy and won’t stain the upholstery.
12. Side-by-Side Exploration
Both lie on the same side, spoon style. Back partner’s hand (or slender toy) explores front partner’s vulva or anus; swap roles halfway.
Low-effort perk: Brilliant for period days, pregnancy or chronic-pain flare-ups.
Lube it: Gel clings during slow side-tongue ventures.
13. Kneel & Reveal
Giver kneels behind receiver bent over the bed. Hands can reach around to stimulate clit while thrusting.
Pro tip: A pillow under the receiver’s chest eases lower-back arch and opens the hips.
Lube it: X offers cushiony slickness for deep, slow plunges.
14. Edge Play
Receiver lies across the mattress with bum at the edge; giver stands or kneels on the floor—ideal height for hands, toys or mouth.
Why it rocks: Eye-level vulva makes feedback easy—watch breathing to time strokes.
Lube it: Liquid if fingers only; X if toys or strap-ons enter.
15. Couch Climb
One partner kneels on the lounge backrest, leaning forward; the other nestles between thighs for mouth + toy combo.
Variation: Slip a vibrating plug into the receiver for hands-free dual stimulation.
Lube it: Start Gel for oral precision, slather Liquid if the toy comes out.
Pro tips for louder “yesss”
- Check in often. A quick “harder?”, “firmer?”, “stay right there!” keeps both of you on the same pleasure map.
- Angle hacks. A folded towel under hips or knees can tip a “meh” move into fireworks territory.
- Warm the lube bottle. Five minutes in a mug of hot tap water = instant snug.
- Swap roles. Half the list as giver, half as receiver—double the discovery, same bedtime.
FAQ
Do we really need lube for vulva-on-vulva moves?
Absolutely. Natural wetness ebbs and flows; lube stops micro-tears and keeps the rub comfy.
Water-based vs silicone—how do I choose?
Water-based (ASTROGLIDE Liquid) is toy-friendly and rinses with plain water. Silicone (ASTROGLIDE X) sticks around through showers, pool sessions and Brisbane humidity.
Is this guide just for cis women?
Nope. Anyone with a vulva—trans, non-binary, gender-fluid—is welcome. Tweak language, toys and positions to suit your body and pleasure.
Ready, set, slip 🏳️🌈
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